One of The Good Things In Life
May 21, 2018
I guess that's it.
People make mistakes.
We fall too hard, or we fall too short, we hurt the ones who love us most, sometimes it's us who choose to hurt ourselves.
The ones we love now may someday have different hands to hold, eyes to wake up to, different gestures and words to pick up, different hobby and music taste to criticize and miss all at once.
It happens.
Some are lucky to get it right the first time.
As for the rest of us, you and me, we keep loving.
Sometimes we're deluded to think that the only love we need is the romantic one. We're so focused on looking for it that we tend to miss out on other great kinds of love that's given to us so easily. Love from our family, friends, workmates, pets. More importantly, love from you to yourself.
A person who supposed to never let us down, in the end, someday, they probably will. Makannya harus sayang sama diri sendiri. Susah? Sama! I tried to embrace my self and trying to do better everyday for years, even though I still don't like fully the way I am now, I always trying to be grateful about what I have today. Selain mencoba sayang sama diri sendiri, beberapa tahun kebelakang ini juga banyak belajar untuk percaya sama diri sendiri. Mencoba untuk nggak dikit-dikit menyerahkan influence, key of my very own happiness ke orang lain, whoever they are.
Maybe we have both known loss like the sharp edge of the knife, we feel betrayed by our loved/trusted ones. We have both lived with a scar. The pain is lessen, the scar is dried, but it stays, right?
We maybe scarred and feel betrayed at first but at least our heart is still beating, so it still count for something. Because who will take care of your life if it wasn't...um...well, yourself? Hehehe.
All of these are just my two cents. Sometimes a thing that I never talked about in real life, you may find it on my blogs and twitter, not to give it away that this could be one of them.
Sandy: (Very private and reserved person, rarely talking about personal stuff in real life)
Also Sandy: (Menyebar aib, curhat sendiri di twitter tanpa perlu ditanya wkwkwk)
Remember that one of the good things in life is that you can always try again. First maybe try to acknowlegde all of your issues. You deserve to be healed. Sleep, do your favorite things, travels, go to the party, meet friends, treat yourself or reaching out for someone else out there who can hear you. If you feel that you failed to love yourself today, try again tomorrow, at least try to save yourself. Even if somebody else has it much worse, that doesn’t really change the fact that you have what you have. It’s okay to be vulnerable and it’s completely okay to vent. I really hope people would feel better after getting 'these' off of their chest because I know how hard it is to share something so personal, whatever the problem is. Because I've been there and so does everyone else in this world. It's okay to make mistakes, because who doesn't, right? Apapun yang sedang diusahakan, diperbaiki dan dijalankan, semoga kita semakin kuat ya. Amiin.
Remember that one of the good things in life is that you can always try again. First maybe try to acknowlegde all of your issues. You deserve to be healed. Sleep, do your favorite things, travels, go to the party, meet friends, treat yourself or reaching out for someone else out there who can hear you. If you feel that you failed to love yourself today, try again tomorrow, at least try to save yourself. Even if somebody else has it much worse, that doesn’t really change the fact that you have what you have. It’s okay to be vulnerable and it’s completely okay to vent. I really hope people would feel better after getting 'these' off of their chest because I know how hard it is to share something so personal, whatever the problem is. Because I've been there and so does everyone else in this world. It's okay to make mistakes, because who doesn't, right? Apapun yang sedang diusahakan, diperbaiki dan dijalankan, semoga kita semakin kuat ya. Amiin.
Thanks for tuning-in on my TED talk! ❤️
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Btw pada gimana nih puasanya? Lancar? Sebel banget baru awal-awal puasa gini gue udah sempet bocor aja, huuuuuuuuuu. Terus lihat deh, someone has the nerve to be rude not to cover their aurot in a month like this. ASTAGFIRULLAH, Habibi. Memang ni orang dah macam sate padang dikasih nyawa.
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| Allahhumma barik lana / Allahuma laka sumtu, nih 😂😂😂 #MAXIMUM_EFFORT_TO_DESTROY_MY_SANITY |
Recently this song always made my day, been eating up my head since the first time I heard it. Reynolds is a serious epitome of publicist and marketeer's wet dream. The man gets into character in real life and always up for every possible crazy marketing stunts you can think of. Not to mention that he also pulls it off.....everytime. Hope this song brighten your day like I do even though your stomatch is empty.
Happy fasting! Te văd~
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